Secrets Of a happy Relationships

1.It takes 2 to 4 years to completely get to know someone. Couples who wait this length before marriage are less likely to divorced.

2.The best marriage will start as a friendship. Marrying someone you consider a close friend will reduce the divorce rate by 80%.

3.Can’t decide on a surprise gift?

Tell them you have a surprise gift for them and ask them to guess. Now you will have an entire list of gifts that they are expecting from you and voila, job well done. With no disappointment and no hazel everything just in line and just in time.

4.Have a doubt on your  wife or girlfriend if she is cheating on you?

Send flowers to your girlfriend anonymously. If she comes home without them, she could be cheating on you.

5.Write it down.

Keep a notebook and write down every tiny-winey detail from time to time. Something they like, something they appreciated, something they said they wanted to do etc. Now give them all those things later , all at once or one by one. The trick is not to do immediately.

6.After a fight go for a walk and hold hands.

Conversations are easier to have when you’re side-by-side rather than facing one another. Plus, can you really stay mad at someone when their hand is in yours?

7.Give empowering gifts by buying their dreams

If you partner has always wanted to learn tap dancing or go sky diving or travel solo but is too scared to take the leap or spend the money, show them your support and encouragement by gifting them the experiences they want.

8.Have a moment of gratitude with him/her every day, and let him/her know something about him/her that you really appreciate.

9.Talk about the good stuff first.

Before starting a conversation, talk something positive and good that has happened before discussing on the problems or anything else.

10.Take breaking up off the table when you’re fighting.

Mutually agree that if you’re going to break up, that decision will be made during a calm discussion, not in the middle of a heated battle.

11.Resist the urge to correct your partner.

While talking openly is important, there are things that can be kept to yourself. One of them is when your partner is wrong about something super trivial.

12.Spending quality time together really helps.

You have to be willing to give up your time for your partner.  Do they want to watch a movie?  Sit through it, no matter how much you loathe it, and never once complain.  You are spending time with your partner, not the movie.

13.Exchange your roles sometimes.

A girl doesn’t need to cook at all times, and the guy isn’t always supposed to propose his love. You can exchange your roles once in a while to give your relationship a brilliant twist.

14.Keep a common bucket list.

Write down things both of you want to do on one page, so that your partner knows what you are expecting.

15.Monthly date night.

A week may sound too much but once in a month is doable. A little personal effort to make the date special can help a lot.Just watching a movie together, going out for a couple of drinks, and a lot more can do wonders to your relation.

16.If you are friend zoned, ask her to fix you up with one of her friends. She will either feel jealous and admit her feelings or set you up on a date.

17.For a healthy relationship don’t look at arguments as you vs them. Look at them as you both vs the issue.